Whenever relationships are not working , whenever they bring out the "madness" in you and your partner be glad. What was unconscious is being brought up to the light.It is an opportunity for salvation.Every moment, hold the knowing of that moment,particularly of your inner state. If there is anger know that there is anger. If there is jealousy, defensiveness, the urge to argue, the need to be right , an inner child demanding love and attention, or emotional pain of any kind-whatever it is, know the reality of that moment and hold the knowing. The relationship then becomes your spiritual practice. If you observe unconscious behavior in your partner , hold it in the loving embrace of your knowing so that you won't react. Unconsciousness and knowing cannot exist for long-even i the knowing is in the other person and not in the one who is acting out the unconsciousness.The energy form that lies behind hostility and attack finds the presence of love absolutely intolerable.
Humanity is under great pressure to evolve because it is our only source of survival as a race. This will affect every aspect of your life and close relationships in particular.Never before have relationships been as problematic and conflict ridden as they are now.As you may have noticed, they are not here to make you happy or fulfilled.If you continue to pursue the goal of salvation through a relationship,you will be disillusioned again and again. But if you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation,and you will be aligning yourself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into this world. For those who hold onto the old patterns , there will be increasing pain,violence, confusion and madness.
saluti
Francesco
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